We have all experienced a point in life, where the people most close to us, have hurt us in such a way that their actions are unforgivable.There are times when we blame ourselves; either for not understanding or regret on how a different approach could have been beneficial to your current situation.
However always remember, Actions are irreversible but our perception can be changed. If our perception changes, we can breathe.
The only thing you can do is learn from the situation. The only thing you can do is close that painful past and set yourself free from the cocooning question” why did you do this to me?”
The choice is yours. How would you prefer to forgive truly and break free from guilt and betrayal?